So in a non-spanking relationship, the normal timeline of events would be that you talk to him about his bad habit and nicely ask him to not do that anymore. But…it happens again. So then you ask him again, maybe not so nicely and maybe he complies for a day. But…then it happens again. Now you find your self nagging or even bitching about it to him, each time with increasing feelings of annoyance or frustration. And, every time it continues to happen thereafter, those feelings of annoyance or frustration, turn into anger and/or resentment. Thinking, “How inconsiderate of him?”, etc.

It’s just simple arithmetic, boy. But since you can’t keep a proper count, you must get that stroke yet again!’ I can tell you something. No child that I went to school with was functionally illiterate at the end of their schooling. Can you say the same now? When we are having company, I do both of the punishments you describe: Several days beforehand, so I know that everything on his honey-do list will be done, and also right before their arrival, so he will behave himself in his interactions with them. My husband has very different political views than my relatives, for instance, and he definitely needs a reminder to bite his tongue when one of my brothers makes a comment. I don’t want him like a puppy when they are here; I want him to be a topnotch host who is engaged with his guests and serving their needs, whether it’s bringing them a drink, or setting up some game so the kids are out of our hair, or joining in conversation with RESPECT. I get spanked as well for various reasons and attitudes. Now and then we'll be going along fine and out of the blue my wife spanks me soundly!You will accept any punishments I determine, including but not limited to spanking, cornertime, mouth soaping, writing lines, loss of privileges, extra chores, and early bedtime. I did as instructed and she slid herself down the bed until she was sitting on the end of the mattress.

I see the cane is getting through to you. Are you going to be more considerate in future, or will I have to cane you every I'm not judging you, I just really don't understand it because I grew up in the 70's where this would never have happened. If somebody had tried this with my kid I would have followed them home and said "Right, you beat my kid and now I'm here to find out if you like a stranger abusing yours?" to get my point across. Of course I would not do anything but I think they would see where I was coming from. You know, that was only six strokes. I still owe you another stroke," Pamela warned her husband in a sterner tone. Colin was traumatised at this awful news. Initially I actually had every intention to take him to the woodshed before the strap arrived, but I didn’t give him indication that I was going to do so. I just told him that I “might just wait until my new strap arrives.” Just to make him sweat a little bit. I had planned on taking him to the woodshed the Saturday before the Superbowl as we were having some friends over and I figured I’d just take care of his spanking AND have a very well behaved husband for the get together.Paul and I are both newly weds in our late 20s. I went to public schools and he went to a private prep school. I was fascinated by his stories. He told me of how boys and girls received spankings for infractions. I pressed for details. He said every day if you were written up, you reported to a detention room after classes. Having a real spanking option in our relationship has TOTALLY removed tension points between us. Actually, it has prevented many trivial issues from becoming tension points at all. Which is important because, like many “trivial” things that upset us, the feelings associated with them can easily accumulate and grow into something more than they should.